What schools can do
There are a lot of books available which seek to advise schools on how to
reduce bullying. My own books, Bullying in schools and what
to do about it and Stop the Bullying are
in some ways
typical. They draw upon what is known about bullying from the research
literature and outline steps that schools are taking in addressing bullying.
They typically include advice on both preventative and interventive strategies
and methods. I find that they need to be frequently updated as new ideas emerge
and new resources become available. Here is a short list of what I think is
important:
- Make sure that the concept of bullying is defined clearly and sensibly.
(I still find schools that have not reached any agreement on what bullying
is, for example some think it is any sort of aggression; some limit it to
physical means; some do not include indirect bullying. See my thoughts on
definition.
- Collect relevant data. There are reliable questionnaires
available.
- Start from a common basis of knowledge of what is happening and how students
and others feel about it.
- Develop a well supported anti-bullying policy. See guidance
on school policy below.
- Work with children in classrooms. How to prevent bullying should be a significant
part of children’s social education and as such part of the school curriculum.
See Work with children in classrooms below.
- Promote better bystander behaviour. Much bullying does not come to the attention
of teachers. Positive bystanders
can greatly help
- Seek to respond to school bullying in the most appropriate way. This may
include the use of sanctions in extreme cases, but recognise that progress
can often be made using a problem-solving approach working with students,
as in the Method of Shared
Concern
Some
guidance on school policy
These are the main elements typically included in a school
anti-bullying policy. However, it is extremely important that the policy reflects
what a school staff want to see in the policy. Otherwise commitment to its implementation
will be weak and its effectiveness limited.
Work with children in classrooms
Teachers are currently being encouraged to
include lessons on bullying in the school curriculum. Here are some suggestions
on what could be included.
Knowledge
- What bullying is
- The school anti-bullying policy
- Why it must be stopped – the harm it does
- The content of the school’s anti-bullying policy
Attitudes
- Being unprejudiced
- Being cooperative and empathic
- Resisting negative group pressure
- Self-acceptance, as an antidote to discouragement
Skills
- Being assertive and not acting aggressively
- Resolving differences constructively, using conflict resolution techniques
- Helping others who are being bullied, as a good bystander
- Reacting effectively if bullied
Schools need to think carefully about how such knowledge, attitudes and skills
can be promoted.
In including these elements care must be taken to make sure that the content
is age-appropriate and sufficient class time is provided so that the knowledge
can be assimilated, student attitudes significantly influenced and the necessary
skills developed as far as is possible.